Look for the Book: Divorce, Girlfriends, Phone Calls, and Why He Makes Me sick! at Barnes and Noble. Amazon to follow soon on kindle. This is a nook book for those interested.
“Probably the most problematic portion of our marriage was TRUST. Some time after we got married, my ex husband began lying to me. But, he did not know I knew he was lying. After the first time he did it, I checked into everything he said. Nine times out of ten, it was a lie. That really killed my heart. But, I still insisted on loving him and working on things. I internalized this information and gut wrenching details, and it eventually got to me. And when it did, I started getting back at him. I could not get him to understand how bad things had become. He would just leave for work and then come home late. Thereby ignoring and waylaying a discussion with me.”